You are on point. Visited Nigeria and realized that my sister I am sponsoring in school, uses an iPhone 14, owns a lot of bold hair, Brazilian hair etc., and dresses like his father is Dangote, while I do 2 jobs in Europe, no social life, my life is work, home, kids🙄🙄. I told her she would not get one kobo from me again, she should start, selling, her bold hair, clothes, shoes, iPhone etc., raise money and do something good with her life, No one helped me, I survived, and she would be fine too. Today one year after my surprise visit to her, we don’t talk, She says I am wicked🤣🤣, etc. I am wicked, I paid your fee from secondary to last year in unilag,🙄🙄, If you lived abroad, be wise, after the devil is family members, put yourself first, and have a me-first mindset, I learned that the hard way.