Actress Bimbo Ademoye says her first experience of betrayal came from her mother who walked out of her life when she was just two years old.
Bimbo shared this while speaking in a recent interview with media personality, Hauwa Magaji.
When asked about her mum as she has always been known to celebrate her father only on social media, Bimbo said;
‘’My mother is very much alive. She lives like fifteen to twenty minutes away from me. We just don’t have a friendship. My mum left when I was two and so the betrayal, my first ever betrayal came from my mother. I tried to build a relationship with her..right now we have a relationship as I am doing my duties as a child, paying the rent and allowance and all, and that’s about what we have. I am very okay with that. I am okay with the no friendship, no closeness zone that we are in for my mental health and for my own sanity”
Watch a video of her speaking below…
by Linda Ikeji at 16/09/2023 10:41 AM
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Pls forgive your mum I feel ur pain it hurts so so much but let it go
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My mum too kept sending me from one peoples house to another from 6yrs old untill i turned 16 and and left home at 18, i never had a relationship with her the only one year i spent with her she will starve me and feed my sibblings, but today im the one taking care of her financial needs and medical bills, i take care of her and all my siblings. sometimes i feel like staving her too and mk her feel the pain i felt but i dont have the heart.
She doesn’t talk about it? But I’ve read this same story before. Some mothers sha. Happy to collect rent and allowances from a child you abandoned as a baby. Tufia. No shame.
No love like mothers love they say. Watch how some dimwits will drag the father into it with maybe the dad frustrated her bla bla bla. Bimbo went to Covenant university too, same college, she was dating my course mate Emeka, fair guy, very handsome Igbo guy, the guy dey dress pa with good stature, not tall or short but good stature. I saw her as a cheerful person back in school though. Me sef, na fair woman I go like marry, the omalichas, baby Oku, nwa baby, lol.
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TheMan🤡. You want to choose a ‘fair woman’ for yourself, but you come here to cry whenever a woman prefers a rich high status man!!? Who will now marry all the non-‘omalicha’ women with good character that are out there?!? You’re a woman hating hypocrite. Just marry ‘fair guy’ Emeka and let us rest!!! Women are clearly not your type!!!
No love like mothers love they say. Watch how some dimwits will drag the father into it with maybe the dad frustrated her bla bla bla. Bimbo went to Covenant university too, same college, she was dating my course mate Emeka, fair guy, very handsome Igbo guy, the guy dey dress pa with good stature, not tall or short but good stature. I saw her as a cheerful person back in school though. Me sef, na fair woman I go like marry, the omalichas, baby Oku, nwa baby, lol
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I always think mine was the only case. So, I seldom share it. Mine, I mean my mother just dropped me with my father at the age of 2yrs and left. It was harrowing growing up in a polygamous home. Bimbo, you’re lucky you grew up to know your mother, for me it took about 20ys to know that she died a year or two after she dropped me. Hence, I didn’t know her. I was denied an important part of my life. That scar continued to be indelible till today.
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Sorry about that, but please forgive her. Nobody says it’s gonna be easy, just forgive and move on. The good Lord will continue his blessings as you do the things you do for her as her child 🙏
Hmmmmm , I feel your emotions, my mum did not leave me but I never grew up with her ,2 continents apart, despite all her gifts , the bonding never flow
This is what a lot of men experience at the hands of their grown kids. No relationship. Only a few times have I seen it happen with women. But reality is women do it too. We can see it for ourselves now. This is why all those gender wars are so unnecessary. The only difference between men and women is physiological. When it comes to behaviour, everybody has the potential to abandon kids or do good or terrible things. Those of us going about with our polygamous nature mentality, this should show us that we are just deceiving ourselves. I bet Obasi too thought men are polygamous in nature while Yul was busy doing his wife. Both genders have the potential to do good and evil, Women are only more careful and have less slip ups because society judges them more harshly for their failings and in the past, they often had no money so no choice of behaving badly like the person that was feeding them and their kids. But all of that is changing since women are now having their own money hence the rising spate of divorce left right and centre unlike before when husband was sole bread winner and wife could do nothing but stay put in the marriage and for many, cheat with utmost secrecy like what Judy was doing with Yul. All those gender wars are unnecessary. Both have the same potential to do right or wrong
I forgave my Dad at 39 and it was the best decision I could have ever made. Not for him but for me. The bitterness and all that came with it kept me from being the loving person I was created to be.
Nigeria is a dysfunctional place or she’s saying BULLSHIT to big herself up and make her mother look bad. Because why the fuqq are you as a child paying your mom’s rent and giving her allowances. Is she incapable of working and fending for herself? Can’t the government provide her housing and social security?
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